My Holidays, Simplified: More Connection, Less Stuff
For me—like many of my modern American peers—the holidays have become synonymous with frazzled travel, frantic list-making, and anxious overdoing of gifts and goodies. It’s exhausting and not at all celebratory. But as I’ve learned more about the sharing economy, I’ve come to find a new freedom in applying the principles of sharing to all corners of my life.
This year, I am trying these ideas on for size around the holidays, with the goal of spending more time with the people I love, sharing laughter, and making memories.
More social through swapping
There’s no getting around some holiday chores, so my goal has been to make them more fun. One of my favorite new holiday traditions is hosting a holiday card swap.
I invite my friends over and ask them to bring whatever mismatched, random holiday cards they have left over from previous years. We toss them all in a pile that anyone can pick from. Then, we spend an afternoon together writing out our holiday cards—with plenty of eggnog and potluck snacks, too. We spend as much time talking as writing, but the chore becomes more enjoyable because it’s done while connecting with friends.
You can find many more fun ideas like this in the Center for a New American Dream’s Simplify the Holidays guide.
More love through less stuff
Christmas gift-giving used to be hours of shopping and wrapping, a brief fury of exchanging and unwrapping gifts, followed by hours of cleaning up (and, I confess, trips to return gifts). My family and I realized that all the gift-giving meant that we spent more time apart than together at the holidays.
So, we reduced our gifts down to stocking stuffers. This was a fun change of pace for a few years, until we all felt we’d gotten enough keychains, jewelry, and novelty junk.
This year, we’re working together to pick a charity to support as a family. We’re having lively conversations about what causes most move our hearts, all the while learning more about each other’s volunteering and community involvement. Giving less stuff during the holidays has brought my family closer together.
Gifts that give more
And if I need to give actual gifts, such as to clients of the LightBox Collaborative, I make a point of purchasing from companies that align with my values, especially small business that are working to create broader opportunities in their communities. Last year, we gave locally made gourmet treats from La Cocina, which helps low-income microentrepreneurs incubate and launch successful food businesses. This year, we're supporting Zingerman’s Community of Businesses, whose guiding principles state “it is our chosen responsibility to make substantial and significant contributions in order to strengthen the health, social, educational, and cultural fabric of this community.”
For those folks who just have to get me a gift, I send them over to SoKind Registry, where they can pick an alternative gift from my ongoing list of secondhand items I need, fun adventures I’d like to share with a friend, and a few things that I could use help with (dog sitting, please!).
Holly Minch is a board member of the Center for a New American Dream. She is the founder of the LightBox Collaborative, a versatile, dynamic group of talented consultants making the world a better place, one project at a time.